ruger9
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I certainly agree with your conclusion. And being a full time musician isn’t something I’d recommend to anyone with other priorities.
Yeah, I always (even when I was 16 and just starting down this road) thought that to "make it" you had to prioritize your career above everything else, to their (likely) detriment. I always thought of the phrase "you leave alot of wreckage behind you", lots of successful people have multiple marriages with kids from each (seems to be quite common in the arts for some reason, it's common everywhere, but ESPECIALLY in the arts), and I never wanted to be that person, being raised in a stable household with parents who stayed married until death. I guess I thought "I'll make it and have the money to keep a stable family too", but my crossroads appeared before I was anywhere near that.
BTW, sorry if a few of us have hijacked the thread a bit, but it's really been a cathartic discussion, guys.