Lola, I'm retired as of one year and while my workplace wasn't toxic per se, it did go terribly downhill after our original GM retired due to health reasons. The historical trail of woe that became the current leadership(?) as far as business smarts went will surely kill a once thriving powersports dealership. I was fortunate to see the writing on the wall and walk away when I did.
Stick to your guns and see that your husband's medical needs are covered, and then yes, walk away. With a smile on your face!
I'm no professional player by any means, but music is my solace and grounding force.
I stay active with our martial arts club that my wife and I run together, but that won't last forever. Both our bodies are suffering the ravages of age and repeated injury. But as long as I can still train and teach, I will not give in to the physical ailments.
The latest COVD strain knocked me back some, but there's light at the end of the tunnel. Both of us were fortunate to not get hit with the earlier variants, so I'm thankful for that.
Hold on to that which makes you happy and offers fulfillment for you and your family. Hang in there, better things will come!