Willy, I wasn't the least bit upset. I've often pondered the situation where folks who haven't chosen the arts for their livelihood have ideas about what an artist should be, and I've asked myself the same thing.
Sometimes I wonder if they chose not to make art because they felt a day job was incompatible with being an artist. Not that I have an answer to this one, I don't.
It's an existential question, at least if you consider a life in the arts: What is an artist, anyway? What defines the life of an artist? Does one even have to do it full time? The great composer Charles Ives also ran an insurance company [heads up, 11Top!].
I've had discussions with my brother, who's a visual artist. He is more of a purist than me, though he did head up the fine arts department of a university until recently, and I guess you could call that an art day job?
Sometimes I think I'm an artist, and other times I think I'm merely artistic, if there can be such a distinction. Sometimes I feel like a craftsman, nothing more.
However, I do think there's an art to doing good session work, writing a track in a style I might not choose to otherwise write in, etc. In any case, I love what I do for a living, and can't imagine living another way.
So my question really was for open discussion. Rest assured, I took no offense. One possible answer is that if you're making art, you're an artist whether you call yourself one or not. Seems to me there's an awfully big grey area where things in this world are incapable of iron-clad definition, and "art" is one of them.
Another question that is very difficult to answer: What is art? My brother once argued that it was a matter of intent. If the creator or the work intends it to be art, it's art. It may or may not be
good art, but it's art. Perhaps he's right, he's a helluva good artist, his paintings are astounding:
http://www.robertschefman.com/new-work---secrets-project.html
Would the paintings be less "art" if he'd received a commission to do them, with some client direction? I honestly don't think so.
So, if the A&R guy at the label says he wants, say, Americana with some sales appeal, and you create a great Americana song to that spec, are you making art? I think probably so.