One of the things that kept me from considering a PRS is the wide fat profile i found on the few i picked up over the years. My hands aren't small but i have a physical issue with my fretting hand and have always like thinner necks, at time i used to shave all my necks super thin ! I'm not longer that crazed about neck size, but i still go for reasonably thin necks. However, after owning the santana se for just under a week, it took me all of 2 days to come to find it's the first and only neck i've ever played this size that doesn't bother me at all. In fact, now i wouldn't want it any other way ! I almost didn't buy it because of that but i had a gut feeling it was the right thing to do and tnak god i did. I think in those couple weeks you have b4 returning it you just might get used to it and come to like it.