IKnowALittle
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Seems like there is an unspoken message in there that I'll appropriately let go by, but I do need to comment on this part. This has not been my experience.
My father died when I was 24. Yes it hurt, but that hurt does go away. For many years now the thought of my dad simply brings feelings of fondness and love. I don't remember the two days in the small town hospital or the air evac, in which he died, trying to get him to one better prepared to treat his heart attack. I do remember the many days working with him in our family auto garage. I do remember his huge calloused hands and his humor. I do remember him strumming old time country tunes on mom's 58 Martin.
So to the OP I offer hope. It does go away. It does get better. You have the guitars, the music, the memories, and the love. That is what stays. The pain need not.
Well, everyone is different. For me, I have the memories, the love, all the good stuff. But i also have the pain and hurt, and it has never lessened. Not even a little.