Thoughts and prayers for your paw Les.
I had a coworker 6-7 years ago, whose husband is a chiropractor (I know, just hear me out, it's not what you think), he had surgery and lost a significant amount of function in his dominant arm and hand - to the point that considered early retirement due to disability. However, he waited it out, with therapy of course, and is practicing again. What the surgery was, I can't recall. My point is, these things can heal, but they can also take time. Especially in the peripheral nervous system (outside the spinal column), healing and regeneration can occur, although it isn't a fast or efficient process. That recently lowered A1c value is also a very positive factor for nerve health.
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/09/100927141144.htm
Another quick anecdote, I sliced a nice portion of a fingertip on my left hand nearly off about 6 years ago, had to get it stitched up and no doubt severed the nerve connection to my fingertip. While I had no loss of function, it felt off for a LONG time, basically numb, but it did return to normal. I know, I'm really reaching with that one...
I apologize if I've made too many assumptions, but I think damage related to your surgery would be to the peripheral nervous system. You may be losing some strength right now, because of how long you've had less nervous supply to the fingers - doesn't necessarily mean the nerves themselves are getting worse. I've compared a lot of apples and oranges here, but the moral of the story is don't lose hope, it can improve!