Some years ago, our open-mic performed on a comparatively small stage, enough for a bass player/amp. drum kit, and a seat for the lead guitarist. The lead guitarist used to allow me to place my amp behind him and closer to the drum kit. When it was my turn to play, a separate lead player would plug into the first guitarist's amp, and I'd plug into mine.
As rhythm player, I'd back the 2nd lead guitarist, who would typically place the mic onto the dance floor, not beyond the floor monitors. Dance floor was beyond. When it was my turn to solo, I'd dime my guitar, take the lead, and then come back down after.
There were times in the beginning when my ears weren't as tuned to hear the changes, so there were the awkward moments. After about a year of consistent jamming with better players, it was far easier. Obviously trying to follow band leader's direction wasn't easy if you partied too much before your turn, so it was important for me to not overindulge and play it straight.
We enjoyed some good times, and us new guys earned some respect as players. I think I've kept a playlist of cover tunes that was standard fare each Thursday evening. The host would switch things up so as not to be too repetitive each week. Granted, I wasn't great, but learned how to play at a level I was happy with. Perhaps that was the part about being accepted by my peers that made the difference. And that was the part of feeling welcomed back each week that was the reason I enjoyed my time there.
