First of all, I definitely agree that this essentially translates to a neck question. But only you can decide for yourself what scale length and neck pattern will be comfortable for you, but it's hard if you don't know, yourself yet, what you will want once you "get good" -- I'm certainly in a very similar boat.
What scale length have you been playing for the last six months? Also, how hard are you going to practice? I ask the latter, because you can compensate a lot with sheer speed, something I doubt I will ever get to.
In my case, I have chosen to go wider apart frets, so that the "pocket" (that area immediately behind the fret where you want to place your fingers) is bigger, but there isn't a whole lot of room between strings, so I still have to have good technique that way. But it's something you should try and continue to decide as you get better, so don't get married into one particular train of thought.
Good luck, and cheers!