Well, I don't want to interfere with your moves at the gym, but remember NOT to tell the ladies to keep their shirt on. Not that you should tell them to take it off either. Maybe you should just leave their shirts out of the conversation. And pants. Shoes are fine though. And leg warmers. Sweat bands, OK.
No, like some, I'm in no hurry towards "hooking up" or searching for a relationship. Am just a relatively happy, not married guy. Patience is key when making friends, while being unmarried allows me the freedom to be selective regards female friendships. I usually dress warmly and only change clothes if the clothes might be wet from outdoor activity.
The gym is where people can work out their tensions and daily frustrations, while promoting good health. A lot of us are put off by the general craziness in life that I often hear about. IMHO, if folks would work towards better preventive health they'd not need medical treatment as much. Simple things like diet, exercise, good hygiene and adequate sleep can cover a range of topics that anyone can do, young, old, single, married, rich or poor. This type of mindset is impartial towards all.
It's one of the things I've resolved in my heart to do next year, because with advancing age, if you don't use it, you lose it. Would prefer to strengthen what's there, not necessarily build muscle, just tone and strengthen, perhaps regain the six-pack abs. Lose the beer belly. So my clothes can fit again, and that necktie one of my friends is going to try to give me this year can be received with a smile.