This is not me disagreeing with you, Just an observation based on personal experience.
We tend to forget sometimes that music isn't a contest. It's not about being 'better'. It's something we're all on the same team to do, or at least in my opinion, should be.
'Music' and "Business' are two terms that, logically speaking, don't have much to do with one another. They're words that get thrown together for reasons that have little in common. Sure, it's great to make a living, and grab that cash with both hands and make a stash, etc....but what does that do for creativity and being unique as a musician? To me, not much.
And I say this as someone who's done decently enough in the music 'business'. In fact, I'm undeserving as hell, and have been very lucky. Everyone who's heard my work knows that they can do every bit as well, if not better.
I'll say this for the 'made' stars: There are reasons they're successful, and those reasons are usually related to talent and ability. I know, because I've seen it with my own eyes. I've worked with some very talented people that labels wanted to 'make' who in fact didn't catch on with the public. I've worked with people who did.
Are they hacks? Well...depends on the person, the goal, the skills and a million other factors.
But to a degree, most successful musical acts are to one degree or another, 'made'. It's often a matter of random chance.
While it's possible that other people might be more creative, or more original, or whatever, let's not take away from the very hard work that people put in who DO to get where they do in life. To be made? Guess what. You have to not only have the opportunity, you have to be able to seize it when it arises. And talent is involved, like it or not. But so is bravery, persistence, confidence, and lots of other stuff.
For the most part, bands want to succeed financially, and 'make it'. Some get to do that based upon fan appeal. Some get a big push from their label or industry. You'd be VERY surprised at big name bands who got a TON of money allocated for promotion to get the attention of fans, who are now big names. I know this because (a) I'm in the biz, and (b) I still do a little entertainment law.
Are they 'made'? I dunno. I'll let you define it, but everyone is 'made'. Everyone.