sergiodeblanc
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I know just the thing!
Me too!
I know just the thing!
If I make that my signature line at The Gear Page, some snarky dilweed will say "you must have heard that at the PRS forum."‘$3,000’ and ‘Dream Rig’ do not belong in the same sentence! I’m holding out for $20K.
Best reason to do it.If I make that my signature line at The Gear Page, some snarky dilweed will say "you must have heard that at the PRS forum."
Should I put it as a quote, and signed by Les?Best reason to do it.
Well, if money is no object, that might disqualify a good portion of the forum membership, simply because there aren't enough silver spoons to go around...
Though, seriously, the professional wage-earners on this forum have an unfair advantage scooping up delectable PSi. Even though I played that game some years ago and lost out on a lot of money buying/selling, I think I learned my lesson about collecting for the sake of collecting and dreaming big.
More practical regards spending now, and living on a fixed income, my days of "Dream Rig" are behind me, and not because for complaint of lack of money. More correctly, for need of living within my budget. Not unless my stock portfolio made a drastic uptick and tripled in value would I ever consider handing over my hard-earned cash on a dream rig.
Sorry, gents, you can dream big for a dream rig, but silver spoons no gots.
I know just the thing!
Yes.Should I put it as a quote, and signed by Les?
A dream rig doesn’t have to be attainable; that’s why it’s a dream rig!
On the other hand, despite my fumbling, bumbling and lack of perspective, I’ve somehow managed to make mine reality. If I can acquire my very own dream rig, believe me, anyone can.
The More you get, the more you want may well be considered an addiction. Some people may well be addicted to purchasing gear like Guitars, Amps, Pedals etc but there are people who are more than content with a fixed number - whether that is a 'high' number or low. There are people that feel that if one guitar is coming in, another has to be going out. Some may well be trading up, start off with a budget friendly instrument and trade up until the get the 'dream' guitar. There are people that feel if a guitar isn't getting played much, then its time to sell. Not everyone is acquiring 'more' just because the more you get, the more you want.
Instant gratification can exist in different ways for different people and its not always related to spending money - maybe there is an initial outlay - like buying a 'Line 6 Helix' for example, but that can lead to 'instant' gratification down the road, discover a new preset, get an update that offers a new Amp/Cab or FX that lead to a moment of inspiration when you play your guitar. It doesn't have to material items either, bumping into an old friend, hearing an old track that you haven't heard for years etc. Not everyone needs some 'retail therapy' for instant gratification and some can find that in things they already have - reconnecting with some old gear that has strong memories attached - like finding your favourite pair of shoes, you favourite jumper in the back of a wardrobe, finding your old guitar in a case at the back of a cupboard that hasn't been played for years etc and getting instant gratification. Point is, you can get instant gratification from stuff you already own - it doesn't necessarily come from acquiring something 'new'.
Having the courage to speak your mind, regardless of whether its the same opinion as the majority or not is something I do and agree with. I do think that helps people grow as a person but only if you have the ability to listen too. If you don't agree with what you are hearing, that's fair enough but you also need to listen - especially if you want your voice to be heard too. Not everyone agrees which leads to healthy discussion and learning. Its possible that your opinion is 'wrong', maybe through lack of research, evidence or acquired the information from someone else who was wrong. However if you don't listen, someone who is right, presenting the evidence to back up their knowledge, you will forever be wrong and not 'grow' as a person. Sometimes, you have to accept that what your thought you knew was actually incorrect but by listening and accepting evidence that contradicts your belief, you can grow.
A 'dream' rig can be obtainable on a reasonable budget...There is a difference in disposable income between people - depending on how much they earn and how much money they have to spend on necessities and not everyone takes out a 'loan' to spend more than they have to buy a 'core' PRS for example for that 'instant gratification'. Some people (like myself for example) will save up for the expensive items that cost more than their monthly disposable income, may sacrifice on other leisure/luxury items in order to save 'more' each month, may not have the same overheads as others Mortgage/loans all paid off, don't have gas guzzling cars that cost a lot to run, insure and maintain, no expensive monthly mobile phone tariff to have the latest smartphone, don't go on holiday or have a big family with lots of birthdays and Christmas to eat away at your disposable income.
$3k may not be a lot of money for some people too - if you only end up with $30 a week as disposable income, $3k is 100 weeks - nearly 2 years of saving assuming they don't have to buy anything out of that for themselves or others. For someone with $150 a week, that's only 20wks, more than $150 and you cut that savings time down even further. If you have $1k a month ($250 a week) - that's only 3months (12 weeks) of saving and $3k won't seem quite as big a number as it would to the Person with only $30 a week.
Well, congratulations, Les. Your comments about "dream rig" are commendable, considering you've quantified what it means when you say "dream rig." However, it was interesting to note this morning an article from the head of Chicago Academy of the Arts...Jason Patera, the prefect, wrote about 10 things described as his Annual Dispensing of Unsolicited Advice...
Allow me to begin with bullet point #4....Jason writes...
"4) The more you get, the more you want. If you think you'll be happier when you have more something -- more money, more stuff, more power, more success -- you're never going to have enough. "More" becomes "normal" shockingly fast, and when the novelty wears off, you feel exactly the same as you felt before...
5) Instant gratification is not the same as happiness. Much of the modern world -- your phone, your Juul, your credit card -- is designed to trick you into thinking you're happy. They're really just stealing your time and your money...
9) Develop the courage to be disliked. Have high expectations for the people around you. Think for yourself and don't be afraid to express well-founded but unpopular opinions. Have uncomfortable conversations. Don't be an a--------, but also don't be a clone, or a pushover."
While the head of Chicago's Academy for the Arts wrote this for his commencement speech this year, it does make sense to me that many people doggedly hear this advice, but it will go in one ear and out the other, making no lasting impression, nor reaching anyone's heart, which would allow people to change their attitude about material things.
Many people may feel that it is "OK" to desire great wealth and material things, but tragically, end up sacrificing their health, time and effort because of "chasing their dream." If we were to take a hard look at what drives people to attain wealth, position, power or fame, would we not see that is is their ego and self-importance? A hope of making a name for themselves?
My personal feeling is that a person who does not seek personal glory is the one who will attain it, and the one who offers his time, energy, resources, and efforts in service towards others is the one who will be blessed with the things he or she most desires.
Again, your view of "dream rig" is commendable. I hope your avatar motto also allows you to "hear this" so it will reach you and help change your viewpoint of how acquiring wealth and material things might be understood. Not necessarily a view from a person who does not have wealth, but more from a balanced view of how one might view these things.
Well, if money is no object, that might disqualify a good portion of the forum membership, simply because there aren't enough silver spoons to go around...
Though, seriously, the professional wage-earners on this forum have an unfair advantage scooping up delectable PSi. Even though I played that game some years ago and lost out on a lot of money buying/selling, I think I learned my lesson about collecting for the sake of collecting and dreaming big.
More practical regards spending now, and living on a fixed income, my days of "Dream Rig" are behind me, and not because for complaint of lack of money. More correctly, for need of living within my budget. Not unless my stock portfolio made a drastic uptick and tripled in value would I ever consider handing over my hard-earned cash on a dream rig.
Sorry, gents, you can dream big for a dream rig, but silver spoons no gots.
Well dang it.
Well dang it.
I consider myself very open.
So now I can’t have core guitars?
Only a closer would be so humble.